Seizing the Moment!

Have you ever seen a man   hold open the door for his wife of nearly 20 years and wonder how they keep the
  magic alive? Ever seen a woman blush and smile while holding the hand of her  beau out in public as if this was her first date? Or how about ever seeing a  man’s chest rise and fall on every word spoken from the lips of his woman  sitting across the table from him? And you wonder, “Will I ever get that  passion in my relationship?” “Will I ever have someone look at me that way…..as  if I was the only person that existed in his Universe?” Smile………. I would dare  to say that we have all been there, been in that corner of our minds where we  long for greater passion and intimacy…..where we long to be connected and  intimately intertwined in the life of another….where our absence absolutely  affects the heart of another and where our presence creates a sense of  satisfaction in the heart of another…………….. I reckon that the feeling that many  of us are looking for is not always something that just happens……It can…..but  I would venture to say that we have to make it a practice to SEIZE THE MOMENT!

 Seizing the moment involves  being very aware of your lover’s heart……what makes her or him smile? What little  act of graciousness causes a twinkle in their eyes? What little gesture allows  your lover to know that you are intimately connected to their thoughts and  dreams? How many minutes can you set aside to say “ I love you,” over and over  again without  using words. The  whole act of seizing the moments of our lover’s heart creates a plateau effect  of continued intimacy and passion not dependent on external features or  qualities. You see, it’s the acts of affirmation that catapult your lover’s  desire for you into a whole new realm. They want to desire you even more that  you want to be desired. Don’t  slow  down in your pursuit of your partner just because you feel that you have been  taken for granted. Seize this moment and time to let them know that they really  do matter.  So how can you seize  this moment right now you ask? By apologizing first, by planning a romantic  rendezvous, by opening the door, by sharing the poem you wrote about them last  night for no reason, by enhancing your outward appearance, by softening your  rough tone of voice, by agreeing to something that you really do not feel like  doing because it really matters to your mate, by surprising him or her with  their wildest fantasy, by spending uninterrupted time together away from your  cell phones! LOL. There are a lot of ways to seize the moment. Take control of  what happens next for you romantically without fear or hesitation…………See the  opportunity in the moment and take it!


I think a lot of times we  fail to seize the moment because we think we have a lot of time……but do we
really? Or we think that the other person should seize the moment first………We  don’t want to leave our hearts dangling out there to be trampled by  another…..but what if time passes you by and you lose the moment and have  nothing to seize? So don’t wait for the perfect moment…..this moment right now  is just as good as any!