Definitely love can hurt. Whenever we choose to open our hearts up to another even if just a little........there is the potential for someone to get hurt.... But is hurt enough to walk around guarded and unwilling to share yourself with another? I think that love is too beautiful to avoid. Love is so much more than emotions. Love is the ability to lift someone higher than ourselves...... Love is the ability to feel even when external facts say otherwise.....Love is telling your heart that it is ok to open up and spread your wings and fly.......... Love is allowing your heart to beat faster as it recognizes the excitement of feelings for another. Love is also a choice because oftentimes the things we do define the love felt in our hearts. We choose to love and that choice often compels us to behave in a certain way..........The choice to love causes us to at times cover the other person's faults, it causes us to forgive, it causes us to be strengthened in struggles, it reminds us that we don't need to be self absorbed, it causes us to not be rude, selfish, irritable, etc. Love creates a nurturing, submissive environment as each person seeks to serve the other.......... In the absence of love, a relationship would be dull, void of the life it takes to thrive.......So why should we open ourselves up to the pain of love? I say that because without it we would never really know what it is like to live free of the limitations of our self absorbed lifestyles. Each moment we choose to give in to the passion of love, we choose to thrive. We choose to add to our lives by becoming partner driven. We choose to cease from the chaos of trying to figure out life all by ourselves and we open our minds and bodies up to the infinite possibilities of ecstasy! It's the pure satisfaction of connecting ourselves to another unhindered ......... So the question becomes, not can true love hurt but rather can we afford to live with the hurt of choosing to never love..........? It doesn't matter that true love can hurt because even if you do not find true love, that can hurt............
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